You are absolutly correct. Those that truely need help CAN prove it. Do you know how many of those I have met on this site?? ZERO! I have contacted over 60 people at this point. 2 have provided phone numbers. 1 was full of it. And I have not called the second yet. Sadly, this particular site seems to be full of lazy people that just want handouts. I'm waiting 2 more days to see if any person responds with sincerity, or i'm done. Pretty sad its this hard to just help someone.